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Memorial Minutes 2004
Errol Kellogg Peckham Errol Kellogg, or Kelly as everyone knew him, was born in Brooklyn, NY to Errol Devere and Mary Kellogg Peckham on February 4th, 1917. Although the Peckham family was and is relatively small, it was associated by marriage and ancestry to both the Kellogg family on Mary’s side, and the Pickett family on Kelly’s side, which traces its American heritage back to 1645. He developed a strong liking for music, getting free dance lessons to partner with the girls at the Arthur Murray dance studio in Pasadena. He then explored singing and dancing while at Westtown School in Pennsylvania. After graduating from Westtown in 1935, he was accepted into the new work-study program at Antioch College in Ohio. At Antioch he met Betty Jane during their work in Pirates of Penzance. They were to perform and star in several such productions, developing a feel for Gilbert and Sullivan, which they carried forward in parodies over the decades, primarily around the Quaker and political themes that interested them. With the war years, Kelly left college in 1941 without graduating. He did, however, take away something very important—and that was Betty. During wartime, among various conscientious objector activities, Kelly volunteered for many tasks, from forestry work to dishwashing to medical experiments in jaundice. He was exposed to illnesses for the purpose of finding quicker cures for the soldiers in Italy. Not only did he get sick, so did Betty After the war years, Betty joined Kelly in Cairo, Egypt, where a major AFSC relief program was underway for Arab refugees on the now-famous Gaza Strip. They decided to fly back when son Jeffrey was born. Within two months, they drove to California from New York, in 1951, joining the Pasadena Orange Grove meeting. Kelly became finance secretary for the AFSC office in Pasadena, in what was to be a 31-year career raising funds for them, as well as a life of social witnessing in the traditions of the Quaker faith. In 1959, with Betty just reaching 40, along came Laurel. Kelly was the inveterate traveler during these years, raising money throughout the Southwest and taking a three-month sabbatical to Africa. After retirement in 1982, Kelly moved with Betty to Santa Rosa, CA, where he devoted many happy hours participating in, and at times managing, the Santa Rosa Creek Commons. He became a member and part-time fundraiser for the Redwood Forest Friends Meeting, where he helped them with their strategic expansion plans, as well as serving as Clerk of the Meeting. He also worked with the local Friends House retirement home, providing fund-raising and planning skills. Kelly and Betty forged strong political and moral belief sets during their early lives. Their honesty, intensity, and integrity was their sword. Kelly will be fondly remembered by those who knew him for all of these elements—religion, politics, music, dance, parody, and gardening. Kelly’s ashes were interred in the Quaker Cemetery in Pasadena, CA on August 24, 2003. He was 86 years old, had 5 grandchildren, and will be missed by all. John Rogers Peckham John Rogers Peckham passed away April 10, 2003 in Mill Valley, California, at the age of 73 after a valiant struggle with multiple myeloma. He was born a birthright Quaker June 9, 1929 in Wilder, Idaho, to Cecil Rogers Peckham and Edith Widman Peckham. His father died when he was 13 after which his mother moved the family to Pennsylvania. He was educated at Westtown and then at Earlham College, where he was graduated with a BA in Social Science, and from Purdue University with a BS in Civil Engineering . He worked with the California Department of Water Resource in Sacramento in the South Bay Aqueduct Design for over eleven years. Later he worked for the Marin Municipal Water District doing project design and project management for over 22 years. John went to Mexico with the American Friends Service Committee, working on projects to bring water to poor communities. He was active in the American Concrete Institute, the Bay Area Water Works Association, and Water for People, raising money for potable water installations in developing countries. He did consulting work for the American Friends Service Committee and became involved with Vivamos Mejor, a self-help group in Mexico, and acted as its director for several years. John enjoyed a number of hobbies: photography, astronomy, stamp collecting and mountain climbing, having scaled many high peaks in the US and Mexico. He began attending Marin Friends Meeting when he moved to Mill Valley, and acted as our treasurer until he became ill. He was well loved by all. He is survived by his brother, Alan Embree Peckham of Las Vegas, NM, and many cousins. Donations in his memory may be sent to American Friends Service Committee, 1501 Cherry Street, Philadelphia, PA 19102. Diana Araujo Born June 23, 1947, Diana passed on December 30, 2003. She grew up in Santa Ana, California, where she attended the same grammar school where her mother was a teacher. She enjoyed her grandmother’s orange grove farm in Santa Ana with her siblings and cousins, Lyn and Larry Larsen. She spent many happy times there as a youth, playing hide and seek in the fields. She attended Santa Ana High School, where she met and married her husband, whom she later divorced. A few years later she moved back to her childhood home on Olive Street. She had her children from 1966 to 1972, at which point she went back to college to finish her higher education, while still working as a full-time mother of four. After graduating in 1976 from the University of California at Irvine with a Bachelor of Science degree in microbiology, she went on to work with Dr. Stanbridge at the university’s medical school as a research assistant for twelve years. In 1991, she left the university to take a break from lab work to become her first grandchild’s nanny for four years before he moved with his mom to Massachusetts. At this time she found her final home in the mountains at the foot of Sequoia National Park, where she worked as a park range— a job she greatly loved. The Sequoias had also been a frequent visiting spot with her family during many previous vacations.Diana loved to go camping and be out with nature! Her children have many fond memories of "bad tent" experiences. Her older son, Luis, moved to Three Rivers in December of 2000 and is grateful for the three years with her. Diana will be greatly missed. She was the joy of her children’s life. She always had something quick and witty to say. She had a good sense of humor, and if you knew her like we knew her, then you thought she had a beautiful smile and soul. Her passing is sad and bittersweet—but as her oldest daughter, I know that she is supremely happy. Although we cannot see her again, she is able to see us always—and this is all that she ever really wanted. She did not take much from life, but she left a lot for all of us. I will always remember the most important lesson that she taught me: "Use the raft to get across the river, but once safely across to the other side, let it stay there for some one else to use." Diana was a member of the Visalia Friends Meeting and considered herself a "Quaker/Buddhist." She always walked lightly, and rarely carried a big stick. She was the mother of four children—Diana Elise Araujo, age 37 of Winchester, Massachusetts; Luis John Araujo, age 36 of Three Rivers, California; David Rafael Araujo, age 34 of Santa Ana, California; and Rebecca Angela Araujo, 31 of Santa Ana, California. She had two grandchildren whom she adored —Aaron Elya Pivo, age 13 of Winchester, Massachusetts, and And Psalm Maya Washington, age 9, of Santa Ana, California. She is survived by all her children and grandchildren along with her Mother, June Corry Sisk, age 86, of Santa Ana, California; sister, Janet Rosalee Williams, age 54, of Garden Grove, California;and brother, James Walter Sisk, age 52, of Lucerne Valley, California Her former spouse, Luis Rosendo Araujo, age 59 of Santa Ana, California, was visiting for the holidays and was present with her at the time of her passing, along with her two sons and grandson.—Submitted by Diana Elise Araujo. Rea Soares, Marloma Long Beach’s Clerk with the golden voice, was born Sept. 6, 1928, and raised in Los Angeles, Compton, Apple Valley and Kingsburg, all in California. He was proud of his heritage, for he was a direct descendant of Biddie Mason, a slave woman who drove her Mormon master’s cattle from Missouri to Salt Lake City on foot, made her way to California, petitioned and won her freedom, and became a prominent and well-known landowner in her own right in Los Angeles. (A park named for her is located near 3rd and Broadway in Los Angeles.) Rea’s grandfather, Jacob Soares, served as an assistant to California Governors Gage and Pardee and actually helped write legislation. Rea graduated from Belmont High School in Los Angeles and promptly shipped out as a steward with the U.S. Coast Guard Merchant Marines, traveling the world. Not wanting to respond to the military draft, he did not come ashore in the U.S. until the FBI came on board for him in San Francisco. He expressed his unwillingness to carry a gun, asserting that he could not in conscience shoot at a human being, and was referred to AFSC and then to the Chaplain’s Corp. He did serve in the Army, still refusing to take part in target practice, and ended his military service as a corporal. Rea went on to attend the Boston Conservatory of Music, initially planning to study piano but soon concentrating on voice and pipe organ. After a period of working as a probation officer with youth in New York City, Rea toured the U.S., Canada and Japan as a vocal soloist, culminating in a performance in Carnegie Hall on May 22, 1976. He described the difficulties of finding a place to stay and even to go to the bathroom when touring in the southern states. After a lynching took place while he was in the South, he stopped touring: "The heart went right out of me. I never looked back." His years of touring left him with vivid memories of almost every city, town and village we could mention, as well as every piece of vocal music. He was frequently moved to sing in Quaker meetings, weddings and memorials. He is well remembered for his moving "Swing Low, Sweet Chariot" at the end of Pacific Yearly Meeting memorial plenaries. A modest and rather private person, Rea was a fine photographer, story teller, and, less known to many of us, a talented artist and poet. Even less known is the fact that he was a Mason in the early 1950s. An only child and devoted son to his mother, who lived to the age of 102, Rea was married once and divorced. In recent years, after learning that his father spelled his own name "Rea," he changed his spelling from "Ray" to "Rea" as well. Since returning to Southern California, sometime in the 1960s, Rea worked for the Los Angeles County Probation Department until cutbacks eliminated his job and then joined the County Department of Agriculture, trapping coyotes and other animals. He enjoyed traveling and planned a trip each year to a part of the world that grew wine grapes, including France, Morocco, Chile, etc. In Italy he took part in an audience with the Pope as a Quaker minister. He had planned a round-the-world trip to include South Africa in 2003, but unfortunately his illness overtook him. Rea’s retirement was imminent when he was stricken with severe back pains, followed by a diagnosis of the cancer that took his life. Rea joined Friends at the 15th Street Monthly Meeting in New York City and later transferred his membership to what was then called Marloma Monthly Meeting in Long Beach. He was a valued Clerk of the Meeting for nine years from 1994 until his death on Dec. 9, 2003. He also served on various committees in Southern California Quarterly Meeting and Pacific Yearly Meeting. Rea served the Marloma Long Beach Monthly Meeting with devotion and caring, dedicated to his "Meeting family." (On several occasions he brought his own family members, visiting cousins Dick and Betty James from Ohio and cousin Marcelle Baines, to worship with us.) To Rea, no matter what the weather, it was a "beautiful day." He is deeply missed by all in his Meeting and many beyond. Genevieve Nowlin Genevieve Helen Nowlin, a beloved member of Santa Barbara Friends Meeting, was born on December 5, 1910, in Los Angeles, California, to Charles Frederick Nowlin and Alice Banks Nowlin, the third of four children. She attended Santa Barbara Friends Meeting for many years before becoming a member in 1983. She died on November 22, 2003, in Santa Barbara, California, at 92. Genevieve grew up in Los Angeles and in Southern California on ranches her family owned. She credits her mother with her introduction to pacifism. She was active in the American Baptist church as a youth leader for 20 years. During WWII she was a pacifist and became a peace activist; during that time she was the director of the Southern California Junior Red Cross for the Los Angeles school system. Her first contact with Quakers was with the American Friends Service Committee during WWII; she was an ardent supporter of AFSC throughout her life, crediting Robert Vogel as one of her mentors. As a young woman Genevieve studied voice; to develop her breath for singing she began to practice yoga, a practice she continued for the rest of her life. Upon the sudden death of her father in 1942, she had to take over the family investment and land businesses. She successfully managed these for 60 years. After WWII Genevieve went to UCLA, graduated with a degree in English, earned a teaching credential, and began her teaching career in Pasadena. She moved to Santa Barbara in 1956, where she taught English and literature at Santa Barbara high school for over 15 years. Upon retirement at 61, she devoted her energies to actively and generously supporting her many local, national and international peace and social justice interests. She was a strong advocate for providing opportunities for young people, education, peace, environmental issues, international relations, and many local Santa Barbara non-profit organizations. She was instrumental in founding the United Nations Association in Santa Barbara and served that organization for many years. Genevieve traveled widely on all continents of the world, including Antarctica. In 1982 she participated in the Volga River Peace Cruise through Russia, and in 1986 she invited USSR citizens for a similar trip down the Mississippi river. For 16 years she staffed the peace table in front of the SB Museum of Art. She worked toward abolishing nuclear weapons, participated in Quaker vigils against the death penalty, and during the 2003 Iraq war she stood once a week in silent vigil with the local group Santa Barbara in Black, which grew out of the Women in Black movement. By her own account, she never outgrew her activism, which did not diminish with years. She continued to be active until shortly before her death. In November 1997, Genevieve was given a Lifetime Achievement Award by the Santa Barbara News-Press for her dedication to community service. In October 2003, she was given a Community Peace Hero Award by the Nuclear Age Peace Foundation of Santa Barbara. Genevieve did not marry. She is survived by two sisters, Mary Ellen Nowlin Hudspeth, or Sun City West, Arizona and Alysmae Nowlin Schultz, of Pahrump, Nevada; she was predeceased by her older brother Edward Nowlin. Genevieve was a loving aunt to three generations of nieces and nephews, and she trained her niece Mary Ellen Pitman of Mesa, Arizona to continue the management of the family businesses. We will remember Genevieve for her mischievous sense of humor, the twinkle in her eye, her forthright manner in expressing her opinions, her activism, and her generosity. She came regularly to Meeting, and said she felt great joy in the living silence of Quaker meeting. p
Stephen Schenck Jones Stephen S. Jones was born in Philadelphia in 1914, a 12th generation descendent of one of the original pilgrims who sailed from England on the Mayflower in 1620. After graduating from Germantown Friends High School in Philadelphia, Steve attended Cornell University as an undergraduate, and then the University of Michigan, where he earned the Master’s degree which prepared him for his work in the fields of nuclearand solar energy and energy conservation. This background also gave him those insights into the negative aspects of the Strategic Defense Initiative which led to the pamphlet he wrote in the 1980’s outlining the limitations of that so-called "Star Wars" program. His professional interest in energy conservation went hand-in-hand with his love of nature and living things. He shared these values with his children as they camped, hiked, skied, sailed and climbed mountains together. After Steve married Elizabeth Israel in 1973, the two of them went on many memorable nature excursions. Steve’s athletic abilities exhibited his well-known trait of persistence: he climbed Mt. Rainier at the age of 50, and once completed a race on a cinder running track with just one shoe, not stopping after the other one had fallen off. Steve spent his later years actively working to create the conditions for a world based in peace, justice and the absence of nuclear weapons. The letters he wrote, the protest marches, the civil disobedience with its consequent arrests, all gave public expression to his convictions. Not always serious, he is also remembered for the sweetness of his presence and the humor he voiced at unexpected times. Steve was a long-time member of the Religious Society of Friends, in San Jose, Santa Cruz, and finally at Friends House in Santa Rosa. He served on the Board of Directors of Ben Lomond Quaker Center and was active in the Friends Unity with Nature committee and with EarthLight Magazine. He was Clerk of San Jose Monthly Meeting, and n the Santa Cruz Monthly Meeting, he served on its Peace and Social Order Committee and was its Friends Committee on National Legislation liaison for many years. Steve passed away at the age of 89 on September 16, 2003 in Santa Rosa after a protracted struggle with Parkinson’s disease. Preceded in death by his son Stephen Hawkins Jones and his first wife Marjorie, he is survived by his wife Elizabeth, his twin sister Elizabeth, his older daughter Elizabeth and her children Hari, Kenneth and Lotus, and by his daughter and son-in-law Peggy and Ron Snow and their children Stacy, Sarah and Spencer. pMartha Mott M artha Mott, a cherished member of Mountain View Friends Meeting (Denver, CO), died on July 28, 2003. She was 87. A memorial meeting was held at the Meeting House on September 9, 2003.Martha was raised in Kansas, and met her husband, Waldo, at college. They were married in 1939. Martha adopted her husband’s Quaker faith as her own, and she worked for peace and justice as she and Waldo raised two children, Bill and Nancy. Martha was an activist throughout her lifetime. During World War II she campaigned against mandatory conscription. While living in Washington DC, she took politicians on tours of poor neighborhoods to increase their awareness of poverty. She helped set up day care for Mexican immigrant children in the 1950s on the Western Slope of Colorado’s Rockies. She was a mentor and grandmother figure to teens at Gemini House in Lakewood, a halfway house for teens. Martha was also active in Sierra Club, Audubon Society, the Democratic Party, and other organizations. Though Martha was a tiny person in stature and her voice was soft, her influence was powerful. She was a great organizer, and knew how to gather the right people to make change happen. In 1991, Martha joined Mountain View Meeting when she moved to Evergreen, Colorado. In addition to the causes already mentioned, she championed affordable housing for seniors, started the recycling program in Evergreen, provided senior citizens with transportation, visited nursing homes, and started the Evergreen Friends Meeting. Martha continued her activism until she suffered a stroke in May of 2002. Martha leaves her two adult children, four grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren, and many friends. Martha Mott served as a role model and inspiration to many, combining a hunger for justice with a loving and compassionate spirit. We feel honored to have known her. pBrinton Turkle B rinton Turkle, well-known author and illustrator of children’s books, was born in 1915 in Alliance, Ohio. His parents were Edgar Harold and Ada Cassaday Turkle. Brinton attended Carnegie Institute of Technology from 1933 to 1936 and the School of the Boston Museum of Art from 1938 to 1940.He and his wife Yvonne Foulton moved to Santa Fe, NM,from Ohio in 1948. They started their family here and Brinton pursued his career as a book illustrator. In 1959 he moved to New York City and began writing and illustrating children’s books. He returned to Santa Fe in the 1970s, again one of the mainstays of our Meeting, beloved by all of us. Brinton’s contributions to our Meeting were manifold. He was firmly anchored in Quaker history and tradition. His vocal ministry was something we looked forward to, when he rose and stood straight and tall, in his William Penn hat and Navajo jewelry. His offerings were often anecdotal, usually amusing, and frequently outright humorous, even bringing laughter into our solemn midst. He exemplified reverence with a light touch, keeping us in balance when we were at risk of getting too serious, and giving us the gift of Quaker spirituality through stories. He was an advocate of a lower threshold for vocal ministry. Brinton spent the last several years of his life in a retirement center, a round trip distance from Meeting of over a mile. He proudly walked this distance, declining any offers of a ride, and leaving immediately at the close of meeting, before announcements, in order to be back at the center for the midday meal. He consistently displayed a cheerful optimism even when enduring health setbacks in his last few years. Brinton wrote and illustrated many popular children’s books, and also illustrated more than 100 books for other authors. One of his most beloved and enduring books featured a Quaker boy, Obadiah, and his family living in Colonial Nantucket. Thy Friend, Obadiah won a Caldecott Medal of Honor in 1970 and was reviewed as "a perfect picture book about friendship." Other books in the Obadiah series included Rachel and 0badiah, Obadiah the Bold, and The Adventures of Obadiah. He received many awards, including the Lewis Carrol Shelf Award and the Book World Award, and the Caldecott Medal of Honor. In 2001 he was honored by the state of New Mexico with the Governor’s Award for Excellence in the Arts. We miss Brinton greatly, and are extremely grateful for the many years of his warm and friendly presence in our Meeting. A memorial service in the Meeting House brought an overcapacity attendance with many shared warm and generous memories. Another service at El Castillo retirement community was also attended by many appreciative friends. Brinton is survived by his daughter, Matilda Cassaday Rubin, and his sons, Haynes Laurie Turkle and Jonathan Brinton Turkle. pRosamond ("Roz") Rae T he Colorado Springs Friends Meeting mourns the loss of its cherished member Rosamond ("Roz") Rae. Roz died recently at her home in Colorado Springs. She was 54 years old. While she served the Meeting in a number of capacities, including that of Clerk, she will be best remembered for bestowing on those who knew her the gifts of her friendship, wisdom, and, when the occasion called for it, ministry. Trained as a psychologist, she knew how to listen and when to speak. She specialized in assisting the developmentally disabled. Burdened by a painful disability of her own, she inspired others by her cheerful and courageous outlook on life. She was a lover of music, photography, and books, and the possessor of a wry sense of humor.Roz was a Friend in the fullest sense of that word. She will be greatly missed by all whose lives she touched. pAnnette Ruth Greenberg Annette Ruth Greenberg passed away on March 19 th at her home in Moab, Utah from breast cancer. Annette was born on August 19, 1942 and grew-up in Trumbull, Connecticut where she lived on two beautiful lakes. She is survived by her mother Ruth Isabelle Petersen of Catonsville, Maryland, her husband Bob Greenberg of Moab, her daughter Jessica Greenberg of Boston, Massachusetts, her sister Joan Clement of Takoma Park, Maryland, her brother Bruce Petersen of Fayetteville, West Virginia and 8 nephews and nieces. Her father Norman Louis Petersen preceded Annette in death in 1999.Annette earned a bachelors degree in political science at Colby College in Waterville, Maine and remained active in politics and connected to Maine throughout her life. She was a founding member of the Moab LWV chapter and has been active in antiwar, social justice and human rights issues. Speaking truth to power was a watchword of hers. Annette earned a masters degree in political science from the University of Montana in Missoula and after her divorce from her first husband, moved to Washington, DC where she interned at the Friends Committee on National Legislation and worked at the Institute for Policy Studies. In Missoula and Washington, DC, she was active in the anti-Viet Nam war movement, and was detained briefly in JFK Stadium along with thousands of other antiwar demonstrators. Annette escaped from the detention camp with the help of a friend and in the company of fellow-demonstrator/detainee Abbie Hoffman. Annette was a member of the Teachers, Inc., a community-based group of activist educators dedicated to promoting social change from within school districts. She was a member off the Teacher’s Inc. Washington, D.C. project where she and Bob Greenberg met. After their marriage in February 1974, Annette and Bob left their jobs to manage the congressional campaign of a Quaker friend of Annette’s in New Hampshire. The following spring, they left on a yearlong trip to Nepal, crossing Turkey, Iran, Afghanistan, Pakistan and India by bus and truck with only their backpacks. Annette was a dedicated educator who taught elementary school in Washington, DC before she found her vocation as a special education teacher and administrator. Annette earned a masters degree in special education from the American University Hillcrest Children’s Center program. She first taught special education in suburban Maryland and after moving to Moab in 1976, and the birth of her daughter Jessica in 1978, returned to teaching with a halftime special education position at South East Elementary in 1981. In 1987, Annette became the Grand County School District’s Special Education Director and in 1996 she was appointed the principal of HMK Intermediate School. She managed both jobs for the 96-97 school year and became HMK’s full-time principal in 1997. Annette’s was diagnosed with breast cancer during her tenure as HMK’s principal. In 2000 she started her second stint as Special Education Director. Her illness forced her to stop working in the spring of 2002. Annette was raised a Methodist and was drawn to the Religious Society of Friends by their peace testimony, commitment to social justice and manner of worship. She became a Quaker and a founding member of the Moab Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends. She was also very involved in the Utah Friends Fellowship serving as treasurer for several years. Annette attended most Intermountain Yearly Meetings serving as co-treasurer one year and co-coordinator of the Children’s Yearly Meeting for two years. Annette always had a special love for children who faced significant challenges. In her memory, Annette’s family is adopting a school in East Africa for children who have been orphaned by HIV/AIDS or have special learning needs. Memorial donations may be made to the Annette Greenberg Memorial Fund at Zions Bank in Moab, Utah. Martha Fort La Jolla Monthly Meeting reports the death of our beloved Friend, Martha Fort on February 17, 2004. Martha was born on June 12, 1908 in Monongahela, Pennsylvania, and spent her childhood in Charleston West Virginia. She earned a bachelor’s degree in Political Science from Oberlin College and a graduate degree in Psychiatric Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh. While she was at Oberlin she helped found a student peace organization which launched her life of service in the areas of social action and peace. Martha’s career as a social worker began with numerous WPA projects in Ohio, Kentucky and Florida. She also worked for the Red Cross, Veterans Administration in Florida and Pennsylvania, and Pittsburgh’s Family and Children’s Service. As a single parent, after her eight-year marriage ended in divorce, she raised her two daughters while working full time and participating in various community activities. It was in Pittsburgh that she first embraced the Quaker faith and became active in Quaker peace issues which revolved around America’s escalating conflict in Viet Nam.In 1963 she moved to California. She first supervised graduate students and taught at the University of California at Berkeley and then moved to Sacramento where she supervised graduate students in their field placement for Sacramento State University. In 1967 she traveled to Viet Nam with a rehabilitation team of the American Friends Service Committee. Their hospital in Quang Ni was bombed during the Tet offensive and the team was evacuated. In the following years she returned twice more to Viet Nam where she worked to establish growth and development norms for Vietnamese children. This project was her response to the thousands of children orphaned without record of birth, age, or health status. Her work was published in a British medical journal. Profoundly moved by her first hand experience of the horror of war, she dedicated the rest of her life to peace activism and conflict resolution. Martha joined the faculty of San Diego State University in 1968 and remained there until her retirement in 1975. While at SDSU she was one of the founders of the Peace Resource Center. She was active with many NASW projects, League of Women Voter issues, as well as many Quaker activities. After retirement she spent two years in Geneva, Switzerland producing and editing the newsletter for Women’s International League of Peace and Freedom. She also volunteered as a teacher at a School of Social Work in Rhodesia during the civil war in that country in the late 1970s. Her interest in the peace movement and in alternative community constructs led her to spend time with various communes and communities in France, Switzerland and The British Isles. In the early 1980s she worked with Central American refugees who were detained in camps along the Southwest border. She traveled extensively in Mexico, living in Mexico City, San Miguel de Allende and Hermosillio. While there she studied Spanish and became fluent enough to address, in Spanish, a UN meeting in Mexico City. She traveled to Nicaragua, El Salvador, and Columbia observing first hand the civil war there and working with refuges that were imprisoned in Southern Mexico and also spent time in Guatemala as a bodyguard with The Peace Brigade. She worked to preserve the indigenous languages of the Guatemalan Indians by developing their oral language into a written one. She had the peace book, One Hundred Monkeys published with her Spanish translation. In 1986 Martha returned to San Diego and turned her attentions to numerous local projects. She was instrumental in the restoration of the trees at Chollas Lake Reservoir. She participated with Pro Esteros on border issues and worked to save the wetlands. She worked assiduously to secure affordable housing in San Diego by participating on the Mayor’s taskforce on affordable housing and representing Friends Meeting on the Board of Interfaith Housing Foundation. She also organized resident committees at the various Interfaith Housing projects. Martha was also active with the United Nations Association. She attended International Women’s Conferences in Mexico, Africa, and Beijing. She was active with the National Association of Social Workers, Women’s International League of Peace and Freedom, League of Woman Voters, Audubon Society, Sierra Club, and Grandmothers for Peace. She received many honors from the community, such as Peacemaker of the Year and Social Worker of the Year. Martha brought her vast knowledge about peace and social concerns to Friends and educated us about the issues and possible solutions. Her presentations were comprehensive and well thought out and gave broad viewpoints. In pursuit of her interests, Martha exhibited a tireless energy and spirit that lasted well into her 90’s.In her later years she was also able to slow down enough to appreciate the wonders of nature, the ecstasies of opera, the beauty of art and architecture. On her 90 th birthday she packed a tent and camp stove and traveled solo up the coast from San Diego to Oregon, spending almost 2 months exploring alternative ways people develop community as she visited communes, religious centers and friends.In the winter of 1999 she moved to Sacramento to live, first with her daughter Elizabeth and then at Aegis of Carmichael, an assisted living home. Both Sacramento and Davis Monthly Meetings were enriched by her participation in Meeting for Worship. The projects she was working on at the time of her death were establishing a chair at Oberlin College for the beloved Doctor Jaszi and recording a history of her life. She is survived by her two daughters: Eloise Piper of San Diego and Elizabeth Hattin of Sacramento, and five grand children and seven great grandchildren. Martha’s life as a Friend reflects the fruits of a faithful spirit. Her work as a tireless peace advocate opened her heart to a deep understanding and compassion not only for her own frailties but also for the frailties of others. Her messages in Meeting for Worship were simple, inspirational and loving. We celebrate a life well lived and though we miss her active presence, her legacy lives on among us. pToussaint L’Overture Jennings Toussaint was born May 8, 1914, in Thompson, Georgia, and was named for the great hero of the Haitian Revolution. He had an older brother and two sisters. When he was a few months old, his mother died and his father moved the family to Augusta, Georgia. When Toussaint was three, his father remarried and his half-sister was born. That marriage ended in divorce and the family moved to Elsinore, California. When Toussaint was 12, his father married Elizabeth Elmore, who was a devoted mother to the children until her death in 1947.\ The family moved to Los Angeles where Toussaint finished high school. At that time, his father moved him into the local YMCA. Toussaint remained active in the Y for the rest of his life, sometimes serving as a member of the board of directors. He served in the United States Army from October 1940 to October, 1941. After that, he worked as a railroad porter and traveled the United States, which gave him a life long love for travel. He then went to work for the US Postal Service and retired as a Foreman Mails Supervisor after 35 years. He became an active member of the Bowen Methodist Church and especially enjoyed singing in the choir. In 1949, he married Mary Beth Washington. Toussaint and she met through Hedy Hubbe, a longtime member of Orange Grove Meeting. Mary had two sons— Santee (also known as Mike) and Eddie— and they thought of Toussaint as a father, even after he and Mary Beth divorced. Mary Beth had been an admirer of Stuart Innerst and become a Quaker. When Mary Beth was appointed Resident Friend at Orange Grove, the family lived in the caretaker’s apartment. As he helped maintain the property and taught Mary Beth’s boys to help him, Toussaint gradually became involved in Orange Grove Friends Meeting. He became a member in 1963. He was famous for saying, "Other people talk, but Quakers do." Somehow he remained active at Orange Grove and at Bowen Methodist without either of the two being aware of the other. Family was one of the most important parts of Toussaint’s life. A nephew says, he was "All about family." He had many nephews and nieces; and he would visit one family after another. He was a considerate guest, never dropping in unannounced, but sending a telegram beforehand and arriving with his own sleeping bag. Once there, he would take the whole family out to the International House of Pancakes for dinner. He would share news from the last family he had visited and thus held the whole family together. He especially enjoyed the children. He remembered all their birthdays and exposed them to culture: theater, opera and museums. He would gather the children all together for afternoon outings or extended vacations, singing camp songs all the way. His nephew Ron remembers Toussaint teaching him to drive on the Pasadena Freeway. He took the older children from Pacific Ackworth School on field trips and always took a special interest in children whose families were troubled. His family says that although he was dependable, he was a bit of a loner, never talking about himself. Nor did he ask personal questions, he simply observed. In his later years, he became more active at Orange Grove. He served on various committees, especially Oversight, and was a regular at workdays. He was our only African American member for decades. We had a Christmas tradition of Toussaint leading us in the spiritual, "Amen." After retirement, he sometimes lived with his sister in Pasadena, and could be counted on to attend meetings for worship and business. He seldom spoke in meeting but when he did it was simple and to the point. He was fond of quoting his grandmother who said, "What you’re doing speaks so loud, I can’t hear what you’re saying. He seemed to know everyone and always had a bright smile, a cheerful greeting, sometimes a little joke and a spiffy vest. Toussaint lived to be 89. He died peacefully on September 6, 2003. In his last years, he had to live at the Eisenhower Nursing Facility because of failing health. A few members of Orange Grove and many members of his family visited regularly. On his last birthday, we sang spirituals together and his face was alive with the Spirit. Amen, Toussaint. We miss you. p
Martha Fort L a Jolla (CA) Monthly Meeting reports the death of our beloved Friend, Martha Fort, on February 17, 2004. Martha was born on June 12, 1908, in Monongahela, Pennsylvania, and spent her childhood in Charleston, West Virginia. She earned a bachelor’s degree in Political Science from Oberlin College and a graduate degree in Psychiatric Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh. While she was at Oberlin she helped found a student peace organization which launched her life of service in the areas of social action and peace.Martha’s career as a social worker began with numerous WPA projects in Ohio, Kentucky and Florida. She also worked for the Red Cross, the Veterans Administration in Florida and Pennsylvania, and Pittsburgh’s Family and Children’s Service. As a single parent, after her eight-year marriage ended in divorce, she raised her two daughters while working full-time and participating in various community activities. It was in Pittsburgh that she first embraced the Quaker faith and became active in Quaker peace issues which revolved around America’s escalating conflict in Vietnam.In 1963 she moved to California. She first supervised graduate students and taught at the University of California at Berkeley and then moved to Sacramento where she supervised graduate students in their field placement for Sacramento State University. In 1967 she traveled to Vietnam with a rehabilitation team of the American Friends Service Committee. Their hospital in Quang Ni was bombed during the Tet offensive and the team was evacuated. In the following years she returned twice more to Vietnam where she worked to establish growth and development norms for Vietnamese children. This project was her response to the thousands of children orphaned without record of birth, age, or health status. Her work was published in a British medical journal. Profoundly moved by her first-hand experience of the horror of war, she dedicated the rest of her life to peace activism and conflict resolution. Martha joined the faculty of San Diego State University in 1968 and remained there until her retirement in 1975. While at SDSU she was one of the founders of the Peace Resource Center. She was active with many NASW projects, League of Women Voter issues, as well as many Quaker activities. After retirement she spent two years in Geneva, Switzerland producing and editing the newsletter for Women’s International League of Peace and Freedom. She also volunteered as a teacher at a School of Social Work in Rhodesia during the civil war in that country in the late 1970s. Her interest in the peace movement and in alternative community constructs led her to spend time with various communes and communities in France, Switzerland and the British Isles. In the early 1980s she worked with Central American refugees who were detained in camps along the Southwest border. She traveled extensively in Mexico, living in Mexico City, San Miguel de Allende and Hermosillo. While there she studied Spanish and became fluent enough to address, in Spanish, a UN meeting in Mexico City. She traveled to Nicaragua, El Salvador, and Columbia, observing first hand the civil war there and working with refugees imprisoned in southern Mexico. She also spent time in Guatemala as a bodyguard with the Peace Brigade. She worked to preserve the indigenous languages of the Guatemalan Indians by developing their oral language into a written one. She had the peace book, One Hundred Monkeys, published with her Spanish translation. In 1986 Martha returned to San Diego and turned her attentions to numerous local projects. She was instrumental in the restoration of the trees at Chollas Lake Reservoir. She participated with Pro Esteros on border issues and worked to save the wetlands. She worked assiduously to secure affordable housing in San Diego by participating on the Mayor’s taskforce on affordable housing and representing Friends Meeting on the Board of Interfaith Housing Foundation. She also organized resident committees at the various Interfaith Housing projects. Martha was also active with the United Nations Association. She attended International Women’s Conferences in Mexico, Africa, and Beijing. She was active with the National Association of Social Workers, Women’s International League of Peace and Freedom, League of Woman Voters, Audubon Society, Sierra Club, and Grandmothers for Peace. She received many honors from the community, such as Peacemaker of the Year and Social Worker of the Year. Martha brought her vast knowledge about peace and social concerns to Friends and educated us about the issues and possible solutions. Her presentations were comprehensive and well thought out and gave broad viewpoints. In pursuit of her interests, Martha exhibited a tireless energy and spirit that lasted well into her 90’s.In her later years she was also able to slow down enough to appreciate the wonders of nature, the ecstasies of opera, the beauty of art and architecture. On her 90 th birthday she packed a tent and camp stove and traveled solo up the coast from San Diego to Oregon, spending almost 2 months exploring alternative ways people develop community as she visited communes, religious centers and friends.In the winter of 1999 she moved to Sacramento to live, first with her daughter Elizabeth and then at Aegis of Carmichael, an assisted living home. Both Sacramento and Davis Monthly Meetings were enriched by her participation in Meeting for Worship. The projects she was working on at the time of her death were establishing a chair at Oberlin College for the beloved Doctor Jaszi and recording a history of her life. She is survived by her two daughters: Eloise Piper of San Diego and Elizabeth Hattin of Sacramento, and five grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. Martha’s life as a Friend reflects the fruits of a faithful spirit. Her work as a tireless peace advocate opened her heart to a deep understanding and compassion not only for her own frailties but also for the frailties of others. Her messages in Meeting for Worship were simple, inspirational and loving. We celebrate a life well lived; and though we miss her active presence, her legacy lives on among us.
Toussaint L’Overture Jennings T oussaint was born May 8, 1914, in Thompson, Georgia, and was named for the great hero of the Haitian Revolution. He had an older brother and two sisters. When he was a few months old, his mother died and his father moved the family to Augusta, Georgia. When Toussaint was three, his father remarried and his half-sister was born. That marriage ended in divorce and the family moved to Elsinore, California. When Toussaint was 12, his father married Elizabeth Elmore, who was a devoted mother to the children until her death in 1947.The family moved to Los Angeles where Toussaint finished high school. At that time, his father moved him into the local YMCA. Toussaint remained active in the Y for the rest of his life, sometimes serving as a member of the board of directors. He served in the United States Army from October 1940 to October 1941. After that, he worked as a railroad porter and traveled the United States, which gave him a life-long love for travel. He then went to work for the US Postal Service and retired as a Foreman Mails Supervisor after 35 years. He became an active member of the Bowen Methodist Church and especially enjoyed singing in the choir. In 1949, he married Mary Beth Washington. They met through Hedy Hubbe, a longtime member of Orange Grove Meeting. Mary had two sons— Santee (also known as Mike) and Eddie— and they thought of Toussaint as a father, even after he and Mary Beth divorced. Mary Beth had been an admirer of Stuart Innerst and become a Quaker. When Mary Beth was appointed Resident Friend at Orange Grove, the family lived in the caretaker’s apartment. As he helped maintain the property and taught Mary Beth’s boys to help him, Toussaint gradually became involved in Orange Grove Friends Meeting. He became a member in 1963. He was famous for saying, "Other people talk, but Quakers do." Somehow he remained active at Orange Grove and at Bowen Methodist without either of the two being aware of the other. Family was one of the most important parts of Toussaint’s life. A nephew says, he was "All about family." He had many nephews and nieces; and he would visit one family after another. He was a considerate guest, never dropping in unannounced, but sending a telegram beforehand and arriving with his own sleeping bag. Once there, he would take the whole family out to the International House of Pancakes for dinner. He would share news from the last family he had visited and thus held the whole family together. He especially enjoyed the children. He remembered all their birthdays and exposed them to culture: theater, opera and museums. He would gather the children all together for afternoon outings or extended vacations, singing camp songs all the way. His nephew Ron remembers Toussaint teaching him to drive on the Pasadena Freeway. He took the older children from Pacific Ackworth School on field trips and always took a special interest in children whose families were troubled. His family says that although he was dependable, he was a bit of a loner, never talking about himself. Nor did he ask personal questions, he simply observed. In his later years, he became more active at Orange Grove. He served on various committees, especially Oversight, and was a regular at workdays. He was our only African American member for decades. We had a Christmas tradition of Toussaint leading us in the spiritual, "Amen." After retirement, he sometimes lived with his sister in Pasadena, and could be counted on to attend meetings for worship and business. He seldom spoke in meeting but when he did it was simple and to the point. He was fond of quoting his grandmother who said, "What you’re doing speaks so loud, I can’t hear what you’re saying." He seemed to know everyone and always had a bright smile, a cheerful greeting, sometimes a little joke, and a spiffy vest. Toussaint lived to be 89. He died peacefully on September 6, 2003. In his last years, he had to live at the Eisenhower Nursing Facility because of failing health. A few members of Orange Grove and many members of his family visited regularly. On his last birthday, we sang spirituals together and his face was alive with the Spirit. Amen, Toussaint. We miss you. Norma Aibi Thompson Reed M embers of La Jolla(CA) Monthly Meeting are saddened at the untimely passing of our beloved member, Norma Aibi Thompson Reed, on July 30, 2003. This dynamic woman was born February 1, 1950 in San Jose, Costa Rica. For the first 13 years of her life, Aibi was raised by her godmother. In 1963 she moved to New York City to live with her mother. Her early life experiences contributed to her becoming a woman who cared deeply about the social, emotional and academic well-being of both children and adults. She had an illustrious career in education.While in New York, Aibi received two Bachelors of Arts degrees, in Education and in Spanish, as well as a Masters of Arts degree in Bilingual and Urban Education. She was inducted into the Brooklyn Alumni Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta in 1984. Later, in San Diego, CA, she received an Administrative Credential. Some of the highlights of her career on the East Coast include: classroom teaching, Program Specialist for the Office of Bilingual Education, ESL Methods and Theory instructor at Medgar Evers College and a Supervisor of Student Teachers at Fordham University. In California, she was a Bilingual and ESL Program Facilitator, Title 1 Program Coordinator, vice principal and principal, and Interim Superintendent of the Chula Vista Elementary School District. She was chosen as the La Mesa Citizen of the Year in 1995. For the past five years, Aibi was the Director of Curriculum, Staff Development and Categorical Programs for the Inglewood Unified School District. There she managed a $12 million budget for Federal and State Categorical Programs and wrote their first K-12 standards-based curriculum in 30 years. Being curious about the lives of people in other places, Aibi visited Brazil in 1992 on a Fulbright-Hayes Fellowship and went to East Africa in 1997 sponsored by Rotary International. But it is not for her impressive professional career that Aibi will be most missed and remembered. Aibi was a woman who touched many people, She was married to her devoted husband Wayne for twenty-five years. They have one beloved son, Kwofi, whom they proudly saw graduate from Georgetown University’s School of Law last spring. In addition to her family, Aibi was treasured by a large circle of friends. Attributes family and friends use to describe her are: "caring", "stimulating", "fun loving", "an outstanding cook," "a true sister-friend," "a woman with an artistic flair," and a "healer of broken spirits." Aibi and Kwofi became members of La Jolla Monthly Meeting with the encouragement of Wayne who had been helped by Quakers in dealing with his opposition to the draft in the 60s. She was especially interested in racism issues and greatly influenced Friends by offering new perspectives, encouraging deeper thought and being an inspiration. Her messages in Meeting for Worship frequently came in the form of song emanating from deep within her spirit. Aibi was very involved with Friends of African American descent and attended two of their gatherings. La Jolla Friends will greatly miss her alive, exuberant spirit and the numerous ways in which she personally touched each of us. Eve Ridle Todd E ve Ridle Todd died on June 20, 2004, after being challenged by gastric cancer for several years. As her dear friend so eloquently wrote: "Just as in living, Eve continued to teach us in dying, for it was then that her true mastery of living came out. She had the courage to face what was happening to her, the strength to endure her pain as a final act of love toward those she cherished so dearly and the pragmatism to know how to bring her physical life to its conclusion. She had an unshakable spiritual belief and never lost her perspective. Although it was hard for her to accept her increasing dependency, she did so with elegance and humor. Even on the last day, she spoke and was cracking jokes, reminding us to see the lighter side of life."Eve was born on August 2, 1946, the oldest of two girls. Her early years were spent in the Marshall and Carolina Islands where she developed her lifelong interest in other cultures and languages. She was home schooled while living there. The family moved back to the United States when she was about 10 years old and lived in Helena, Montana where she went to middle school and high school. She attended Carroll College and graduated from the University of California at San Diego with a BA and an MA in linguistics. Eve was married in her 20s and had two children, Miles and Sandy. The marriage only lasted five years but she and her ex-husband were able to maintain a close co-parenting relationship in the raising of the two children. Many of Eve’s friends say that they learned from her how to treat children as real people with the same respect accorded to adults. Even while she was dying, she was able to put aside her own needs in order to make her two-year-old grandson comfortable. Eve first came to Quaker Meeting in the early 1980s because of her children. She wanted her son to be exposed to the peace testimony and to consider being a conscientious objector. After her children were grown, she continued to come to Meeting as she loved the worship and the values of Friends. Until her illness these past few years, Eve attended Meeting for Worship regularly with her partner of the last 18 years, Mike Marcus. She gifted us with a steady, quieting presence during worship. Eve practiced yoga daily since the age of 19 and loved the theater. She was an active member of Dimensions, a social/educational group for women who met for mutual support, as well as to learn about various community issues and programs. She was a world traveler and gained a broad perspective on life. After learning Chinese, she had hoped to take a trip to China with a good friend but her illness became too severe. Eve worked as a fiscal program manager at Northrup-Grumman where she developed many of her longterm, close relationships. She also met Mike at work; they shared a deep and loving relationship, full of interesting adventures, including learning to tango and travelling to exotic places. Mike was her primary caregiver and devoted himself to her care during her illness with the assistance of their families and many close friends. Her memorial service on June 27 at La Jolla Meeting House was packed with people who loved her and mourned her loss deeply. Those who knew Eve well described her as "quirky, loving, truthful, kind, warm, sad in those difficult years, spiritual, aloof, independent and stubborn". Her friends said that she possessed "a quiet intelligence that did not need to proclaim itself" and that she was "adept at helping and healing others." Eve had an integrity of spirit and was able to let her hair down and just be herself, from the sultry tango dancer to the concerned mother to the warm humanitarian. We cherish her legacy of how to meet all of life. oAnnette Ruth Greenberg Annette Ruth Greenberg passed away on March 19, 2004, at her home in Moab, Utah from breast cancer. Annette was born on August 19, 1942, and grew up in Trumbull, Connecticut, where she lived on two beautiful lakes. She is survived by her mother, Ruth Isabelle Petersen of Catonsville, Maryland, her husband Bob Greenberg of Moab, her daughter Jessica Greenberg of Boston, Massachusetts, her sister Joan Clement of Takoma Park, Maryland, her brother Bruce Petersen of Fayetteville, West Virginia, and 8 nephews and nieces. Her father, Norman Louis Petersen, preceded Annette in death in 1999. Annette earned a bachelor’s degree in political science at Colby College in Waterville, Maine and remained active in politics and connected to Maine throughout her life. She was a founding member of the Moab League of Women Voters’ chapter and has been active in antiwar, social justice and human rights issues. Speaking truth to power was a watchword of hers. Annette earned a master’s degree in political science from the University of Montana in Missoula; after her divorce from her first husband, she moved to Washington, DC where she interned at the Friends Committee on National Legislation and worked at the Institute for Policy Studies. In Missoula and Washington, DC, she was active in the anti-Vietnam war movement, and was detained briefly in JFK Stadium, along with thousands of other antiwar demonstrators. Annette escaped from the detention camp with the help of a friend and in the company of fellow-demonstrator/detainee Abbie Hoffman. Annette was a member of Teachers, Inc., a community-based group of activist educators dedicated to promoting social change from within school districts. She was a member of the Teacher’s Inc. Washington, D.C. project where she and Bob Greenberg met. After their marriage in February 1974, Annette and Bob left their jobs to manage the congressional campaign of a Quaker friend of Annette’s in New Hampshire. The following spring, they left on a year-long trip to Nepal, crossing Turkey, Iran, Afghanistan, Pakistan and India by bus and truck with only their backpacks. Annette was a dedicated educator who taught elementary school in Washington, DC before she found her vocation as a special education teacher and administrator. Annette earned a master’s degree in special education from the American University Hillcrest Children’s Center program. She first taught special education in suburban Maryland and after moving to Moab in 1976, and the birth of her daughter Jessica in 1978, returned to teaching with a half-time special education position at South East Elementary in 1981. In 1987, Annette became the Grand County School District’s Special Education Director, and in 1996 she was appointed the principal of HMK Intermediate School. She managed both jobs for the 96-97 school year and became HMK’s full-time principal in 1997. Annette was diagnosed with breast cancer during her tenure as HMK’s principal. In 2000 she started her second stint as Special Education Director. Her illness forced her to stop working in the spring of 2002. Annette was raised a Methodist and was drawn to the Religious Society of Friends by their peace testimony, commitment to social justice, and manner of worship. She became a Quaker and a founding member of the Moab Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends. She was also very involved in the Utah Friends Fellowship, serving as treasurer for several years. Annette attended most Intermountain Yearly Meetings, serving as co-treasurer one year and co-coordinator of the Children’s Yearly Meeting for two years. Annette always had a special love for children who faced significant challenges. In her memory, Annette’s family is adopting a school in East Africa for children who have been orphaned by HIV/AIDS or have special learning needs. Memorial donations may be made to the Annette Greenberg Memorial Fund at Zion Bank in Moab, Utah. o
Roland Schinzinger Few in the Orange County (CA) Meeting inspired more affection and respect than Roland Schinzinger. From the time of his first appearance at Meeting with his wife, Jane, and children: Stefan, Annelise, and Barbara, Roland plunged into an active role in the Meeting. At various times Roland served as clerk, representative to FCL, clerk of Peace and Social Concerns, member of Ministry and Oversight Committee and many clearness committees. Born in Japan of German parents, Roland was indelibly marked by elements of both cultures and by the experience of growing up in wartime Japan. His even temper, thoughtfulness, and consideration for others were coupled with a basic belief in the potential for growth in every human being. His great gift for developing and maintaining personal relationships led to numerous warm friendships in the Meeting, in his university life, and among distant relatives and former students with whom he kept in faithful contact. One could call Roland a secular Quaker and a godly man. He was devoted to Quaker ideals of integrity, simplicity, concern for others, and pacifism; and he acted consistently upon these values in his personal, academic, public and Meeting life. Perhaps because of his early experiences in wartime and post war Japan, he regarded each moment as a gift, each day an opportunity for service. Roland was deeply spiritual without using the expected words for expressing his tenderness for life; yet an appreciation for the mysteries of being gave him the openness to accept new experiences and new relationships. In 1965 Roland came from Berkeley to the new University of California at Irvine, where he completed his PhD thesis and helped to establish the new school of engineering. These were the Vietnam War years, and memories of wartime Japan led Roland to assist in weekly draft counseling in Santa Ana and to participate in vigils and marches opposing the war. At UCI Roland developed a course on engineering ethics that aimed to help young engineering students attain a measure of independent thought to strengthen their conduct as autonomous ethical decision makers in their future careers. Together with a philosopher co-author, Roland wrote several books on engineering ethics dealing with the issues of personal responsibility, weapons production, whistle blowing, and product safety. In these career and public action efforts, Roland was encouraged by the Orange County Friends Meeting and, in turn, he offered strong leadership in the Meeting on peace and social action issues. After Jane’s death from a long struggle with cancer, Roland married Shirley Price, also a long time member of Orange County Friends Meeting. Married under the care of the Meeting, they had nearly 10 years together. Roland’s sudden death at 77, in January, 2004, deprived us all of a beloved friend, a spiritual guide, an inspirational example of a person whose life was dedicated to Quaker values. (For those who might wish for more details about Roland’s life and career, go to www.Schinzinger.com). oPaul Durfee Olmstead Paul Durfee Olmstead was born on April 7, 1915. His mother Florence (a school teacher) and father Frank (a leader in the YMCA) raised their sons in Pennsylvania, Colorado and New Jersey. During his training in Community Planning at the New College of Teacher’s College of Columbia University, Paul visited intentional communities in Europe. He then worked in a cooperative community in Macedonia, Georgia, where Morris Mitchell’s dream of community came to life. During World War II, Paul was a pacifist. His assignment to work as a conscientious objector involved fire fighting in western forests, service in a mental hospital, and the mass production of sanitary pit privies in Florida. He married Shirley Bramkamp at a ceremony in a Florida C.O. camp in 1944 and she joined him in his various idealistic works thereafter. They began in Alpine, Tennessee, in a Presbyterian mission station. While in Alpine, the couple adopted a 10 month old baby boy, Charles. Paul taught the mountain men to make furniture, boats and salad bowls from the native first growth walnut, cherry and oak lumber. After establishing a thriving Alpine Industries, they moved to The George Junior Republic in Freeville, New York. Paul taught woodworking in this special school, where the students lived and worked in a republic that had its own laws, its own currency, its own student judge, and even student-staffed law enforcement. The school was well known for success with students who had problems and was able to develop them into law abiding, self-respecting citizens. When their son Chuck was five years old, Paul and Shirl sought a community where they would be able to live in a more realistic situation. They found this in a Presbyterian Mission school in a small town in Utah. Wasatch Academy had boarding students from all over the world and had very high academic standards. Paul taught wood-working and Shirl began an art department that developed some outstanding artists. Paul led prayer groups and skiing expeditions, as well as advising the student council and acting as recreation director. After 28 years in the beautiful Utah Mountains, the Olmsteads retired to Plaza del Monte in Santa Fe. Here they became active participants in the Santa Fe Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends. Their loving care of the Meeting House and garden, and of the spiritual needs of Friends in clearness committees, study groups and prayer, were only enhanced when Paul and Shirl became convinced Friends in 1989. Paul’s watchful eye and loving presence were felt by the wider community as well. Paul, the Senior Olympic Ping Pong champion of New Mexico, skied for years, sometimes with grandchildren. His artistic bent was displayed in his garden (Frederick Law Olmstead was a relative), his sculptures in wood and alabaster, and his oil paintings of his beloved mountains. He was a gentle man, close to God, and believed that his spirit would be with his loved ones even after his physical body was no longer with them. His quiet, steady witness will be sorely missed in Santa Fe Monthly Meeting. Paul is survived by his wife Shirley, son Chuck and daughter-in-law Joanne, grandchildren Katie and Charlie, and great-granddaughter Maya. oBobbie Reinhardt Bobbie Reinhardt died April 28, 2003 at her home, after a seven-year battle with cancer. She was born on February 5, 1940 in Austin, TX. She graduated from Bartesville High School in Oklahoma in 1959. She received her BA from San Francisco State University, and took graduate level courses at the University of Colorado towards a masters degree in education. She was married to William Nelson Reinhardt from 1959 to 1983. They had two children, Gretchen Elizabeth and Garth Andrew. She was married to Justin Pierce from 1986 to 2001. Bobbie held a variety of administrative, support, and teaching positions over the years, but her greatest passions were for her family, friends, and community projects. She served as the director of the University of Colorado Day Care Center during the 1980s. As a co-founder of the New Horizons preschool 35 years ago, she was able to put into practice her deep belief that in order to change the world it was essential for people from different backgrounds to learn to know and respect one another at a personal level; through play and caring, bridges are built across differences. She retained a life-long capacity to enjoy life as children do, staying playful and taking pleasure in everything around her. Bobbie treasured different forms of spiritual expression throughout her life. Born into a Presbyterian family, she began attending Quaker meeting during college, and was a member of Boulder Meeting for most of her adult life. While appreciating Quaker silence, she was also moved by music, dance and ritual. She loved life and people with great passion. She made friends in every situation and was recognized for her honesty and directness of speech. Her friends respected her unwillingness to settle into prescribed paths, and her constant search for the deeper meanings of the world and why we are here. Bobbie was an energetic volunteer for several community groups, including the Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom, the School Mediation Center and Hospice of Boulder County. Even in her last few years, she coached children with dyslexia, mastering a new method herself to do so, and helping the kids with her enthusiasm, humor, trust, and warmth. She listened for and spoke the language of the heart. She is survived by her children, Gretchen Elizabeth Reinhardt and Garth Andrew Reinhardt, their spouses Raul Puente-Martinez and Kristine Reinhardt, her grandchildren, Ellen Elizabeth Reinhardt, Samuel William Reinhardt, and Adriana Citlali Puente-Reinhardt; her sister Phyllis Anderson’s children, Eric Anderson and Tina Anderson, her sister Betty Mynard, her niece Milinda Goff and nephew Randy Mynard, her former husband Justin Pierce, and Glen Rork, her partner at the time of her death. oLilian Watford Many will identify with and recognize the motto of Friends Committee on National Legislation. Lilian Watford, who died April 3, 2004, just before her 96th birthday, is the author of this motto, and for many of us she has succinctly expressed our deepest longings for peace and justice in the world. Born on April 27, 1908 in Chicago, Illinois, Lilian was raised in a socially conscious family. Her grandmother had been chosen to represent the women of Missouri to plead the cause of suffrage to President McKinley. After Lilian’s father died, her mother was a much sought-after nurse and anesthetist who served rural people around Chicago. Lilian jokes that the Baptists first taught her the Quaker principles, of being a minister to herself, not needing ministers or priests to intercede in matters of faith, and lack of church hierarchy. She joined the Baptist church in high school and wrote her first letter to President Coolidge pleading social causes. She became involved in peace activism in college. She married Clyde Watford in 1928, and a few weeks later moved to Sioux City, South Dakota where Clyde worked for the YMCA. The Watfords moved to Pittsburgh, PA in 1930 where they made their home for 57 years and raised three children. They were members of the Emergency Peace Campaign before the Second World War. Lilian was chosen as representative for the American Baptists with the United Council of Church Women within the National Council of Churches in Washington DC from 1947 to 1954, lobbying Congress on Peace and Justice issues. She would commute to Washington a few days a month while Clyde took care of the children. It was there she met Raymond Wilson who co-founded the FCNL, a public interest lobby based on Quaker principles, which she joined as a representative. Wilson took her to her first Quaker meeting in Washington. It was with FCNL that she was trained to do their much-respected research and leadership on all social issues, becoming a leader in her own right. After the war, she and Clyde brought Japanese Americans from the internment camps into their home against much public prejudice and helped them start new lives. She was on the National Committee for Atomic Information, educated the public about the dangers of McCarthyism, and worked on immigrant issues even before the time of Caesar Chavez. In Pittsburgh, Clyde headed the YMCA while Lilian was Public Affairs Director and Adult Education Director for the YWCA from 1954 to 1964. She and Clyde both worked for the Fellowship of Reconciliation for many years. Lillian had realized for many years that she felt most at home in Friends meeting, so she finally joined the Pittsburgh Yearly Meeting in the 70s. Clyde was a founding member of the North Hills Unitarian Universalist Church. Lilian served FCNL for well over 40 years, as clerk of the Policy Committee and traveling with Clyde throughout the Rocky Mountain region as Legislative-Education Field Representatives for one year in the late 70s. They lived in Kerrville, Texas part-time in 1978 and helped found that Meeting. Lilian was clerk of the FCNL Executive Committee from1983-1986. Clyde suffered a severe stroke in 1984. In 1987 the Watfords moved to Silver City, NM where Clyde and Lilian became members of the Gila Friends Monthly Meeting. They always welcomed people to their home on Cheyenne Avenue and many Friends Meetings, events and gatherings were held there. The lifelong list of important organizations to which both Lilian and Clyde gave their time and abilities are impressive, but even more impressive was the love and generosity they poured out to even the most casual visitor, to say nothing of old friends. There was always nourishing, old-fashioned soup or stew waiting for everyone who dropped by, books and papers to be shown and news to be shared, both local and world-wide. We who visited them were glad to have them near us even for a little time. Lilian was active with FCNL until 1994 and worked locally for social causes, including measures to prevent the privatization of the Gila Regional Hospital. In 1997, she and Clyde moved to Denver, Colorado to be near two of their children. Clyde died a week before his 97th birthday in 2001. Lillian participated in the Denver Mountain View Monthly Meeting and was an active advocate for the nursing home where she lived and for the State of Colorado nursing homes. She is survived by their son, Robert Watford of Denver, Colorado, and daughter, Ann Dawson of Pittsburgh, PA, daughter Priscilla Herzoff of Punta Mita, Mexico, and two grandchildren, Katherine Lofton-Fraser of NYC and Jonathan Dawson of Chicago IL. oIrna Grace Marshall Irna Grace Marshall was born on November 29, 1916, in Kingsville, Texas, a remote village south of Corpus Christi and close to the Mexican border. She was the first of 3 daughters and 3 sons of John Marvin Marshall and Annie Grace Whitnebert, all born in the same room at home. From the time of her birth her father decided to call her Polly, and that was how she was known to her family all her life. She didn’t know her name was Irna until her mother registered her for school. Irna/Polly loved Texas, her family and her childhood home with a front porch and swing. At 16 Irna went to Mary Hardin Baylor College in Belton, Texas, where she majored in math and physics and became lifelong friends with Ruby-Lee Pirtle. An early marriage lasted only a short time, but she then married Henry Mason Norvell. Irna used to say, "When I talk about my husband, that’s who I mean." Mason was sent to Italy in World War II, where he became missing and presumed dead, but he eventually returned home. Irna had a daughter who was killed in a bus accident. Later a son choked to death. In 1951 Irna and Mason adopted Phillip, but shortly afterward Mason died in a car accident. Somewhere along the line, Irna got cancer, had major surgery, and recovered. While living in Austin, Texas, Irna joined the Quaker meeting and also met and married Adam Ristad. They worked for a couple of years in rural New Mexico and then moved to Colorado where they were part of the Boulder Meeting. Irna and Adam adopted Nick, born in 1958. Irna was very proud of her multiracial family. When Nick was 5 and Phillip was 12, they moved to the state of Washington, where the marriage fell apart. Irna worked as a physicist in Baltimore during World War II. After the war she earned a Master’s degree and a Ph.D. in English and Philosophy at the University of Texas. She taught Drama and English Literature, including the Bible as literature, at Texas Tech, at the University of Utah and in Boulder, Colorado. Irna inherited poor eyesight. Phillip recalls Irna telling him that until she was a teenager and got glasses, she didn’t realize there were leaves on the trees. By 1979 she was legally blind.. Irna went to work for the Washington State Commission for the Blind in 1965, and developed what became her main passion in life, helping blind babies. Irna was a pioneer in this field at a time when little attention was given to the needs of blind children until it was time for them to go to school. She developed a program that became a model for other agencies and state commissions. Recognizing the importance of reaching out to families when they first discovered their child’s blindness, she worked to ensure that hospitals and physicians knew about the services and would make referrals. Irna often made personal visits to families in the first days and weeks of their discovery of their child’s blindness. Her warmth and knowledge gave hope as well as explanations. She was on the Planning Committee for the International Symposium on Preschool Blind, and her work took her to conferences in other countries. Irna transferred her membership from Austin to University Meeting in 1981, and it became an important home for her and a source of strength when her mother, whom Irna had been caring for, died in 1982 and Nick died of cancer in 1983 at the age of 26. Nick left a 2 ½-year-old daughter, Maleena. Irna and Maleena developed a deep bond. Irna served on the Worship and Ministry, Personnel, Oversight and Social Concerns committees of University Meeting. In her later years, Irna suffered from increasing blindness and other medical problems, including increasingly severe osteoporosis associated with spinal fractures and frequent pain. She progressed from using a walker to using a wheelchair but insisted on maintaining as much independence as possible. Irna came to meeting every Sunday that she possibly could, sometimes with the assistance of her care committee. She had a regular chair, with arms, in a regular spot in the worship room. We felt the strength of her presence. Irna moved from Seattle to Sand Point Idaho to be closer to her son, Phillip, and was occasionally able to attend meeting there. After two years she returned to Seattle, but two years later she again moved to Idaho. When Phillip decided to move to Homer, Alaska, and found a nearby facility for Irna, she looked forward to being close to Phillip, to the water and to a Quaker community. It was not to be. She was diagnosed with cancer right after the move and lived only two months in Alaska. Fortunately Bill and Ruthe Schoder-Ehri, members of University Meeting who live in Homer, were able to be with her in her final days. She died on April 6, 2004, at the age of 87. Irna was tough and strong-willed. She also loved and cared deeply about people. She found joy in life in spite of the many struggles she faced. Good food, a flower, clouds, and news of friends delighted her. She was known for her parting words, "Go with God." |